A million things run through your mind when your student is leaving home and heading to college. And you have a million more things to tell your student before he or she leaves. Remember to mention the following:

• I love you.
• See your academic advisor.
• Answer your cell phone when I call.
• Go to class.
• Get involved with other students on campus.
• Don’t save your laundry until Thanksgiving.
• Stay healthy: eat, drink and act responsibly.
• Check your mailbox often because I will be sending mail and goodie packages.
• Keep your room clean. I won’t be there to pick up after you.
• Get along with your roommate, no matter how “weird” you think he/she is.
• I love you.
• Future employers and spouses will not think your tattoos are as “cool” as you think they are.
• First impressions are lasting impressions.
• Keep me updated on your grades and classes.
• Make good decisions.
• Don’t forget to fill out all scholarship applications, job applications, loan forms, etc.
• Always ask if you need me to get you anything from home.
• Use your time wisely.
• Get enough sleep.
• Go to the health center when you’re feeling ill.
• Drive safely.
• I love you.

“You’ve given them their roots, now is the time to give them their wings.” And don’t forget to tell your student “I love you.”